I have to be honest lately my patience has been tested ALOT. Maybe I am changing & developing and no longer fit some of the people in my life and that's a decision I don't take lightly but I also feel like being irritable, frustrated, snappy, and impatient are not characteristics I want to have going forward. Changes are scary, but also necessary for growth.
Time for some spring cleaning.
I came across this which inspired me to make some changes in my life;
"It Is Better To Be Alone, Than In The Wrong Company.Tell me who your best friends are,
and I will tell you who you are.If you run with wolves,
you will learn how to howl.But, if you associate with eagles,
you will learn how to soar to great heights.
Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others,
it increases your mediocrity. Animportant attribute in successful people is their impatience with negativethinking and negative acting people.
As you grow, your associates willchange.
Some of your friends will not want you to go on.
They will want youto stay where they are.
Friends that don't help you climb will want you tocrawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those thatdon't increase you will eventually decrease you.
Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
Never discuss your problemswith someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those whonever succeed themselves are always first to tell you how.
Not everyone hasa right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of thebargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.
Don't follow anyonewho's not going anywhere.
With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it.
Be carefulwhere you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life.
Wise is theperson who fortifies his life with the right friendships.
"A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by thekind of friends he chooses."
The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom youclosely associate - for the good and the bad.
Note: Be not mistaken. This is applicable to family as well as friends.Yes...do love, appreciate and be thankful for your family, for they willalways be your family no matter what.
Just know that they are human firstand though they are family to you, they may be a friend to someone else andwill fit somewhere in the criteria above."In Prosperity Our Friends Know Us. In Adversity We Know Our friends.""Never make someone a priority when you are only an option for them.""If you are going to achieve excellence in big things,you develop the habit in little matters.Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude.."..” ― Colin Powell
“The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve.